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"Damon and Bonnie, they really are kind of cut from a very similar cloth." —Ian Somerhalder, SDCC 2011 (x)
I can’t say that my answer will be as well written and superb as my fellow shippers because sometimes I have trouble getting all of my thoughts out in a way that makes sense but I’ll try.
Now, first thing I would do if I were you is I’d look at this. It’s well written, extremely detailed and really was my final push into shipping bamon.
Uhh I’m not sure if I would say they’re opposites. They’re different in many ways but also a lot more similar than one may think.
Truthfully, my feelings towards delena changed as soon as they actually got together. You may disagree with me, but I feel instead of Elena making him better like I thought she would, he made her worse.
My first opinion on damon was he was a dick, which he is. He’s a sexy dick draped in leather with beautiful blue eyes and that sometimes makes people forget he’s a dick but he is. In the beginning of the show, he was the biggest dick he could possibly be. Elena did make him better the more he was around her, so I latched on to the idea that Elena would be his anchor (in teen wolf speak), or his humanity. For a while she was, but then she turned into a vampire herself and her character regressed. He was no longer getting better in her company.
In season 5 after her extreme character regression, them being together was, in canon terms, toxic. Damon was no better with her because instead of making him own up to his mistakes (like when he killed Aaron) she basically congratulated him. There was some bomb ass sex apparently but that’s not all that makes a relationship. Having someone congratulate him when he does something wrong isn’t even what Damon wants.
This really spoke a lot to me. He doesn’t want Elena to just shrug off what he does but hold him accountable. Elena should have been that person who gets through to Damon to really wake him the fuck up and be like ‘look, you need to get yourself together’ but she’s not anymore. You know who would be? Bonnie.
Bonnie is the only person who he is really honest with and who I think he trusts wholeheartedly. She also wouldn’t put up with Damon’s bs. Just being around Bonnie makes him question his decisions. Bonnie also wouldn’t really force him to do anything. She’ll put things in perspective, and he’ll do it for himself. She won’t say ‘do it for me’ she’ll say ‘do it for yourself’ and I could not even explain well enough how much he needs that. She’ll really get through to him and I know this because she always does.
That’s my answer, I hope it’s helpful, but you should really check out The Complete Idiot’s guide to Shipping Bamon if you want the best answer possible. It’s long, but it’s also really worth it. Or just find one of the other people you asked, I’m sure their answers are a lot better than mine.
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